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Such wonderful comments above and all so on point.<br /><br /><br />As for:<br /><br />"It came fast and furious and left me totally unprepared for its aftermath. I handled the situation just fine (I always do...I'm the one you want in a crisis), but now?"<br /><br />This is something I realized about myself a long time ago. I am fine during crisis and stress, it is after it has passed that I fall apart.<br /><br />This may be something that is very important for you to recognize and accept in yourself. We step up to the plate when needed but do not process the events and their emotional impact until after the crisis is over. That is ok.<br /><br />Knowing this about myself gives me the space to deal with the stress of the crisis and know that when the aftermath comes at me full force later on I will recognize it and deal with it. It is freeing AND normal......<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1958057397876971565.post-77169913908196063382012-09-25T08:13:55.773-04:002012-09-25T08:13:55.773-04:00Sherry, I'm glad B's back home too, and pr...Sherry, I'm glad B's back home too, and pretty much ditto what Mary Kay says about it being hard to strike a balance with teenage lads; it's difficult (impossible) to know if they are playing something down, or up. <br />Often, in my experience, men (partners, doctors) can tend to think we are, as mothers, being a tad hysterical . . . which we know we're not! We are intuitive in many ways, especially when it comes to our children.<br />Also hindsight does it's best to show us what we should've, could've, would've done, or said.<br />You did right Sherry, you got him to hospital and he's on the mend . . . And you're still Sober, if a little shaken by the experience. Take care, much love and many hugs to you x x xbugerlugs63https://www.blogger.com/profile/08598249255143939365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1958057397876971565.post-33901562615325087752012-09-25T04:12:52.227-04:002012-09-25T04:12:52.227-04:00So pleased B's back home and feeling better. I...So pleased B's back home and feeling better. I still think he is terribly lucky to have a mother who gives a shit as much as you obviously do. It is no reflection of your love that he couldn't let you know how sick he was feeling and what he needed (sorry, terribly constructed sentence, hope you get what i mean).<br />Hope you're rested up and ready to give yourself a bit of that love xx Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1958057397876971565.post-6168308271392696892012-09-24T23:38:39.641-04:002012-09-24T23:38:39.641-04:00Sherrie, I'm so sorry you went through this bu...Sherrie, I'm so sorry you went through this but I'm so glad everything and everybody is okay now. That's what is important. You were right in what you said to your son, it is such a fine balance we walk with teenagers, are we hovering too much, are we treating them like babies? He needed to let you know but he was trying to be grown up and not act like a baby. And if elmo is like the cap'n, he's not going to show is concern because he knows if he acts scared then you are going to panic. Imperfection, the human condition, if only we could know what will happen, but we can't, all we can do is learn our lessons and it sounds like you all have. There's nothing more you can do.<br /><br />Try to let go of your anger,at yourself and at your DH, you did your best with what you knew and your son is ok because you did take him to the hospital,you didn't wait too late. Give yourself credit for that.<br /><br />Get some rest chica. Take care of yourself.<br />Love,Kary<br />Kary Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12674442468925628974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1958057397876971565.post-16139178292498650842012-09-24T17:37:50.840-04:002012-09-24T17:37:50.840-04:00You linked me to this and I just love it. Most of ...You linked me to this and I just love it. Most of my regrets/guilt over the years have involved my son so this post really resonated with me. Please re-read it and remember not to stumble on somthing behind you! <br /><br />http://dawnredefined.blogspot.com/2012/09/embrace-lesson.html<br /><br />So glad to hear your son is home and doing better!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1958057397876971565.post-57319761352362348292012-09-24T16:51:49.547-04:002012-09-24T16:51:49.547-04:00i think it's pretty darn normal to wonder if y...i think it's pretty darn normal to wonder if you did the right thing when someone is sick. but it sounds to me like you did fine. you will never know all that you NEED to know at the same time! some things you'll learn later, it's like pieces of the puzzle that don't come together until AFTER (like how freaked out your son was). you could also wonder if his freaked-out-ness was fever induced... it's not like you ignored him ... you love him to bits, that's super clear. it feels to me like you're being really hard on yourself, maybe for the first time ever? (haha). boys don't talk much anyway, esp. when sick. my husband thinks he has cancer every time he coughs. i have to remember to be patient when he panics. every single time he has an itch, he's worried. AND i have to remind him not to cry wolf or i'll miss something important later. same situation, but different sides. i have to get husband to remember that i'm not him. same for your son - you encourage him to talk/explain more, you encourage your husband to listen more when you raise alarm, and you go on from there. You are fine. All is well. Hugs from me to you. everyone is freaked out when someone is sick. you're sober, though, hey? that's pretty darn amazing :)Belle (Tired2012)http://www.tiredofthinkingaboutdrinking.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com